Watch the video below with youth, then use the questions below to have a mentoring conversation with them.

  1. What does Emmanuel Duran do to a ref?
  2. What consequences did he suffer for his actions?
  3. What were the consequences for his team?
  4. Do you think it was right for the team and coach to suffer consequences too?  Why or why not?
  5. Can you disagree with the decision of someone in authority without being disrespectful or violent?  How?
  6. In what situations should you just stay quiet until the proper time and place?
  7. What does self-control or lack of self-control have to do with this situation?
  8. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being best), how would you rate your self-control in situations when you feel like you have been wronged?